Good Vibes ONLY
One of the phrases I’ve thought about most these past few days is this:
Good Vibes ONLY!
No matter how good we are, or how honest our intentions are, or how much self-love we have cultivated in our lives, encounters with rudeness, negative people or negativity in general is inevitable. Perhaps it is because we are all on our own different paths, and have reached different levels of vibrations, but when you operate from a place of love, the lower vibrations stick out like a sore thumb.
And to quote my favorite meme, ain’t nobody got time for dat!
(DISCLAIMER: THIS IS MY OPINION BASED ON MY EXPERIENCES ONLY.)
Let me elaborate, most people around you either don’t care or don’t like it when you are happy! Now this probably sounds completely contradictory to the earlier paragraph (in terms of self-awareness), but stay with me. Here is how the Society at large operates, most people have very little drive or make very little effort to elevate their own situation, and unfortunately thanks to the social media culture, they often use social media as a platform to constantly look at someone else’s feed, and instead to feeling happy/appreciative, they choose to vent out their own frustrations by judging and trolling.
Can you think of a happy successful person who trolls???
I’ve had so many experiences with people trolling me or mocking me or generally being rude, and I’ve also had amazing, lovely, and wonderful people who have become part of my online (and real life) community as well, and MOST shockingly its the people who know me in real life (and who I had perhaps expected better from) who have turned out to be negative and not so nice (OBVIOUSLY not everyone I know irl, but you get the point), and its saddening that people can be so vicious, especially on social media, where the easier option is to simply hit “unfollow”.
When I was younger, this kind of overt/covert negativity used to bother me to tears, I used to think it utterly unfair when people who should be better (or at least that was as per my own skewed expectations), treated me so poorly for no apparent reason. I just couldn’t wrap my head around it.
Thankfully that’s not the case anymore. Now, there’s a realization that sometimes people you (may) like don’t like you back, and hence find it easier to not make any efforts at being compassionate.
I FINALLY stopped making excuses for other people and their actions, and instead of projecting my own inputs to such behavior/actions, I learnt to accept things exactly as they are. If you show me who you are, I will believe you the first time.
How one acts is a direct reflection of who THEY are, and has nothing to do with you. And with that revelation, I finally put to rest a LOT of my own insecurities and healed a whole lot of wounds.
Anyway, something happened over the past few days which made me think of this a lot, and reflect on my own reaction to facing these energies. I always feel like the most unkind people I’ve encountered have also been the most unhappy, I mean its humanly impossible to operate on such a negative level and be happy. They’ll probably never admit it, but its very likely true.
Obviously I’ve lived on this planet long enough to know that it is not my role to “fix” anyone, but my role is to perhaps fix only myself, my own reactions, perceptions, and energies. Because what you emit comes back, energetically speaking. And it makes me wonder if I am inadvertently operating on these lower frequencies of vibes.
(I know, I know, all this may sound very new-agey, but at this point, it feels like its clarifying a lot of things for me, so bear with me, or not, that’s okay too).
So I made a little pact with myself today, which is: no matter what other people say/think/believe/do, I will focus only on living as brilliantly as possible, after all its the least I owe myself.
A whole new level of self-love has been unlocked, people. And perhaps this will set a whole new tone for life.
Anyway, more on this soon (I’m sure).
Till then, I’m ONLY sending good vibes your way!!